We all want the same things: having an amazing life, having flexibility and freedom in your work schedule, and enjoying your work.
In reality, we aren’t that many of us have. Most of us go around in a balanced life and have numerous regrets.
While this blog post might appear to be a bit negative, the purpose of this post is to give you an urgent wake-up message.
You and I don’t have to Suck on the negative aspects of life. We are able and ought to be amazing and accomplish great things. We ought to live lives full of prosperity and abundance, and it’s in our reach to achieve it.
To achieve this, however, it is essential to be aware of the main reasons you are a suck.
You are an a$$hole
If you’re adamant about not having a filter, making people uncomfortable, and being selfish, rude, or obnoxious, my friend is an a**hole.
Sure, being an a**hole can have its benefits (if you want to be so bold as to call them such). Accepting the rejection of the other sex and not caring about what other people think could be considered positive.
In general, when you’re an asshole, you’re a suck.
You’re not a good person because of an unintentional disregard for others’ opinions. Disturbing people in a theater, not letting the person with a particular item get ahead of you in the supermarket, and swearing in front of children are all signs of this. Children are all indications.
The Solution: Don’t do those things.
You’re the person who is a cynic.
Do you not hate it when you make a statement about any other thing, and someone tries to refute it?
Being a victim at every opportunity and focusing on the negatives make you a skeptic. People don’t like being around you since you believe that everyone wants to take you down.
A solution: To become more optimistic and discover the positive in people. You can find it if you search.
You take away people’s enthusiasm.
Are you that person everybody ignores when they see their number on the caller ID?
They know they will consume their energy, which is a valued commodity. We are all exhausted most of the time. This is a lot to do because our typical diet comprises energy-draining food items. With over 30 percent of the world’s population inactive, energy is difficult to find.
Solutions: Try to listen more and less. Be straight, speak clearly, and make professional eye contact. Negative in all you do or say will turn off people quickly, and you will not need any more acquaintances.
Your dead-end job identifies your identity.
Millions of Americans take their feet out of bed every day in search of an unsatisfying and meaningless job. It’s a sad reality that more than 70 percent of those U.S. people aren’t in a state of mind or energized at work.
What’s more tragic is when people let their work define their lives. While you may not love your job, it’s not because you permit it to determine what you do with your time. While you might be in a non-essential job or job, it doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t have a place in the world.
The answer: Take a step back and realize that if you quit your job today, you’re the same person. Your job is merely a place you work for eight hours per day.
You are an avid person who takes a
The majority of people are generous by nature. They’re eager to give back and lend a hand to a person in need without hesitation.
Some don’t. A person taking part in a takeover is focused on one thing: their own. No matter who is affected and to what extent is not important. This is self-serving while opportunism is at its highest.
Solution: It is time to get a humanity test—volunteer at a shelter for the homeless. Spend a day in a hospice center. Spend time with four-year-old suffering from cancer in the hospital. You may see the importance of giving.
Money is more important than relationships.
It’s prey that could result in a lot of loneliness. There will be a time when money will disappear; however, genuine relationships last.
The pursuit of money is not a race that you can win. You may be able to travel, spend money on beautiful things, or save for retirement, and that’s all good things.
However, when they take precedence over relationships with others that are meaningful, this can be detrimental to your quality of living.
The solution is to Give. Give your money to charity. It’s not a lot or even a lot; however, start getting involved in the process of giving.
You may be afraid of failing, which is why you put such great importance on having a lot of money.
Do you believe that the world owes you something?
Let’s get this straight: the world doesn’t owe you anything or give you anything. You are responsible for accepting the opportunity if you’re looking for it.
Doing your best to avoid the feeling of anger will only serve to harm you and reduce your chances of being successful.
Our society is generating an entire generation of people with the unjust perception of entitlement, who are lazy and selfish to the point of being narcissi.
The answer: The solution is hard work. Please do not sit back and wait for events to occur because you believe you are worthy of them.
Take action, rip your back and create it for yourself. In addition, you will achieve more results, but you’ll feel better about yourself and feel much better about it too.
You’ve been content with a standard existence.
It is, in my opinion, the most tragic of these things. This is when you’ve given up on what you have handed you in the world.
You are no longer working towards something because you think it will never get better.
This is nothing more than anxiety in the form of hopelessness, which is without value.
It is not a reason to believe that you can’t live the life you desire. None.
The answer: You need a wake-up call. It is time to step away from your routine for a brief period and engage in something that fires your fire inside.
This fire might be the trigger for making a change in your life and living it with more joy and enthusiasm.
Stop Sucking At Life
Spend a few minutes to reflect on your own life.
Do your best to be truthful about yourself. It’s difficult to do, yet it’s necessary to identify your weak points. This is the only way to improve your weaknesses.
Your life will not improve without dedication, hard work, and determination. So why are you putting it off for?